Are You a Lurker?

by Ari Herzog on September 20, 2008 · 4 comments

Are you a lurker? A lurker is someone who reads online content but doesn’t interact with the writer. It’s OK to admit it. I lurk on some sites, too, but whenever I am moved to write a comment, I do.

I challenge you to write a comment below — and help me raise money for a good cause.

I know you’re out there because my site statistics indicate how many people visit on a daily basis. Yet, the number of comments on a typical post are disproportionate.

Maybe you’d like to come out of the closet today and enter into my debut De-Lurking Day contest?
Typically held during the first week of January, I’m breaking the rules for you!
Veerle Pieters borrowed the idea from others, describing De-Lurking Day as a special day “celebrating lurkers and exhorting you to muster the strength and bravery to click on that comment button and end the deafening silence.”

Don't Be Shy - De-Lurk Now

In defense of lurking, New York Times Magazine columnist Virginia Heffernan wrote last year that she lurks on many blogs and discussion forums, becoming a “cosseted 19th-century baroness whose electronic servants bring her funny pictures and distracting tales.”

Are you a baroness?

De-Lurking Contest Rules:

  1. Click on either link below to “Write a response” or “Add a comment.”

  2. Choose from four choices to comment: a) through your existing Blogger account; b) through OpenID (the subject of a future post); c) with your name and optional URL; or d) anonymously.
  3. In the comments box, tell me who you are and what you do for a living. Share with me how long you’ve followed me online, and whether any particular stories or content stick out. Do you like what I write? Would you like to see me revisit any topics or raise new ones? Are you interested in guest blogging?
  4. In one month, on Saturday, October 18 at 7:00 PM (New York time), I will select the top two comments, based on responses to #3.
  5. Finally, I will contribute $50 in each of your names to a registered non-profit organization and post about you and the organization.
You are encouraged to add to the commenting stream after October 18, too.

One other thing: You can’t be selected for a best comment unless you post with your real name. This is about showing me who you are, and if everyone is anonymous, the point of transparency is wasted.

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1 looking4ancestors September 20, 2008 at 5:01 PM

Greetings Ari,
Great post. I hope others will accept your challenge. My name is Kathryn Lake Hogan and I have been following your blog for the past few weeks. I am a family historian. To know more about me, I invite you to visit my blog at http://looking4ancestors.blogspot.com/2008/09/getting-to-know-me-getting-to-know.html
Yes, I like what your write. I enjoy reading your posts about social networking. Through your posts I have learned how to better utilize this. I don’t know have the inclination nor the know how to find out about the latest and greatest in social networking on my own. This is why I read your blog.
And finally, yes, I’d like to be a guest blogger.

2 Rizwan Tayabali September 22, 2008 at 3:46 AM

Hi Ari

Here’s a post I’d written on why people lurk on blogs and I believe it’s because of the way the comments feature has traditionally been structured – http://urbansurvivalproject.blogspot.com/2008/01/to-lurk-or-not-to-lurk.html

In response to your other questions, I’m a management consultant working with retailers commercially and social enterprises pro-bono. I deal with business strategy, innovation, social media etc. I’ve just seen your blog for the first time through a comment of yours on the socialmediatoday blog.

It is very hard to scroll through the content on your blog because your archives don’t expand into title lists so I can’t really comment on what you write about, but the few I’ve read along with your blog heading is probably enough to convince me to subscribe.

I’ve got a couple of blogs at http://www.multichannelthinking.com and http://www.urbansurvivalproject.org – and am starting to put together some stuff around leveraging social media (probably starting with a presentation on slideshare – http://www.slideshare.net/rizwantayabali) which might be relevant to your audience so if you’re looking for guest bloggers I’m game.

Regards

Rizwan
http://www.multichannelthinking.com

3 Anne September 22, 2008 at 10:31 AM

Hi Ari,

What a fun way to learn more about your followers. I have been following you now for a couple of months and have managed to comment on occasion.

My name is Anne Hoffman and I work with a great group of people at http://www.NeighborhoodAmerica.com. In my role I have mostly been challenged with helping others get involved and consider myself to be more of a connector than a content creator. That is changing, so I would love to engage more in conversation around what it takes to get social communities kick-started either in business or govt.

You’ve already helped me learn a great deal about web-related behaviors and have lent me personal encouragement. Your posts are always supported with helpful links. I was most impressed with your post “Ike” and Ike and enjoy your editorial style. As for guest blogging, I’d be up for the challenge but I’m guessing I need to work on the content creator side of myself first. :)

4 Amber Smith October 9, 2008 at 11:26 AM

Hi Ari,
I must admit to being a lurker. I have never been called out on it though. Usually I just lurk until I find someone to argue with online. Sad, but true. I don’t know why. You know me though, so, does that still qualify me as a lurker? This is Amber, Naomi’s old neighbor. Well, I’m not old maybe ex-neighbor, but that sounds so negative. If you didn’t know I’m a medical student and also a blog abandoner! I feel so terrible about it, too. I enjoy reading your post. It helps me break the monotony of my day as I am still on hurrication from Ike. My name is Amber Smith and I suppport this message.

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